In her novel, "The Single Girl's Guide to Marrying a Man, His Kids, and His Ex-Wife", Sally Bjornsen addresses some of the taboo situations {a.k.a. :: WHAT HAPPENS WHEN} that are bound to come up if this is an {encore} marriage for your husband. Here are just a few...

{WHAT HAPPENS WHEN}...
.... the Honeymoon comes to a screeching halt and 'life gets in the way' ? ...
.... his once mannerable, polite children have morphed into manipulative,
monopolizing, rambunctious terrors? ...
.... his once seemingly never-present Ex-Wife has somehow become ever-present?...
.... you helpless watch your new hubby diligently trying to balance the chaos? ...

For answers to these questions {any many more} you can pick up this 'how to' novel here